Sitting at Starbucks last night for about 2 hours drinking chai and chantico, I was wired up listening to my friend Kelly update Judi and I on her old and new lesbian love life. We were the loudest people in the place. For a while I felt as if we were in a bar. That was the most fun I've had hangin' out since our graduation party in October.

The need for friendship is as unselfish as eating, eliminating, and sleeping.